Monday, July 22, 2013

Perhaps following Jesus...Rights, part 3

Again, I want to take a moment to reiterate the basic concept of this particular set of blogs if you haven't read the first couple in this series.  Perhaps following Jesus is just as likely to lead us to lay down our rights as it is to lead us to fight for them. 

Alright, now I’m going to get downright heretical, if there was any doubt left in your mind after those two entries regarding rights.  What if, in addition to laying down our rights to Jesus Himself, we were more concerned about the rights of others, specifically the poor, needy and outcast?  What if we spent more time defending the rights of the orphan, widow and alien than defending our own rights as people coming from places of relative wealth?  How radical would that be and what might it look like?

Thankfully, this is starting to happen and pop up in different areas around our country.  There is a strong and growing movement towards downward mobility, a concept that I love and admire but have yet to fully embrace myself mind you.  Christians who grew up in middle to upper middle class America are instead choosing to live a life marked by poverty.  Some might even refer to it as experiencing the privileges of poverty.  I will warn you though that one person in particular who had a similar expression was quickly rebuked by someone who had grown up in poverty that there is nothing privileged about living in poverty.  When someone comes from a middle class to upper middle class or perhaps even upper class into an inner city that is marked by abject poverty, there is bound to be some collisions of worldviews, no matter how well intentioned the person practicing downward mobility might be.

In spite of this fact, if you do decide to go downwardly mobile and live among the poor, your life will be inexplicably transformed and blessed as a result.  I’ve only experienced this from a relatively safe distance either on mission trips or when my community group helps feed the poor at the boat ramp in town.  Even then though, I always come away feeling much more blessed than whatever small blessing I was able to pass along to someone else simply by providing a listening and attentive ear and validating and giving them hopefully a little dose of dignity along the way. 

Maybe that’s why Jesus said it’s more blessed to give than to receive.  That little nugget of wisdom has taken quite a long time to travel from my mind to my heart as I do happen to love receiving gifts of any kind.  However, it really rings true now more than ever.  I happen to love buying my girlfriend presents now, even though I won’t see her until December.  I anxiously await seeing her face again so I can give her all the presents I’ve gotten for her since my time in Myanmar. 


This has certainly been a strange development in my life I have to admit.  I usually never buy presents for previous girls that I’ve had an interest in.  There has been maybe a handful of times where I’ve ever bought a present for either a previous girlfriend or previous girl who I was interested in due to my, well I’ll call it thriftiness but others would probably refer to it as downright cheapness and they might have a unbeatable argument I might add.  There have been several other times where I considered buying a gift for a girl but quickly thought the better of it as I had no real intention of getting into a relationship with the girl when I was perfectly happy being single at the time.  This has been compounded by the fact that when I used to take girls out on really nice dates I quickly added up the credit card bill and was astonished and saddened when I realized I had spent the equivalent of a round trip to Chicago.    Regardless, now I actually look forward to buying my beautiful girlfriend Steffani gifts, which is mind-blowing to me considering my previous history in gift giving.

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